The Importance of a Routine

by Mandi on April 16, 2009

source: sammie lynne

source: sammie lynne

If you read many organizational or home management blogs, chances are you’ve seen this topic covered before. The reason it’s covered so often, of course, is that it works!

Having a routine in place, which is different than a rigid schedule, gives everyone in your home an idea of what to expect and when to expect it. Although we often think about routines in regards to small children, they are useful no matter what stage of life you’re in.

Establishing routines is an important time management tip for several reasons:

1. With a routine in place, you don’t waste time trying to figure out what needs to be done next.

2. As you practice your routine, you can tweak and streamline the process so that it takes less time the more you do it.

3. If your spouse/children/roommate know what comes next as part of your routine and when you’ll be done, they’re less likely to interrupt it.

Rather than trying to map out a routine for your entire day, start by choosing three or four routines to put in place at key transition points during your day. For example, you might choose from the following:

Morning Routine

In my house, the morning routine is the most important of the day. Getting three little ones dressed and ready, serving and cleaning up breakfast, starting laundry, putting away dishes, making a list for the day…these are the activities that can set the tone for the whole day. On days that we stick to our routine, we go quickly through the process, laughing and having fun while we do it. On the days we stray from it, the girls often end up grumpy and out of sorts, and I often feel the same way!

Lunch Routine

We clean up before lunch every day to keep the toy mess to a minimum, and our lunchtime routine includes cleaning up, making lunch and finishing any morning chores that didn’t get finished earlier. I’ll admit, however, that I haven’t been very good at incorporating lunch cleanup as part of our routine, and I’d like to do better about getting those dishes rinsed and in the dishwasher and the floor under the table dust busted as well.

After School Routine

For those of you with children in school, having an after-school routine can help everyone get settled back at home after a busy day. Your routine might include snack time, looking through the homework that needs to be completed and and getting backpacks ready for the next day.

Dinner Routine

In our home, our dinner routine is similar to our lunch routine, although we add in a few more chores so that our house is cleaned up and ready to go for the next day. This is one of my favorite routines of the day because it often involves the girls playing with their daddy while I do the dishes and clean up the kitchen. Because of the layout of our house, I get to watch them play while I take care of those chores, which makes them go much faster.

Bedtime Routine

Every kid loves a bedtime routine, and you may have a routine for yourself as well. For the kids, it might include bath time, reading, singing or cuddling, depending on your family’s preferences. Your personal bedtime routine might include washing your face, taking out your contacts, getting your clothes, purse or briefcase ready for the next day and so on.

Activity Night Routine

Another routine that I could see being an important one is a routine for nights when different family members have activities and you won’t be home. Maybe it includes a specific routine for before you go or for when you get home, but either way, having a routine in place can lessen the chaos.

What routines do you have in place? Which is your favorite? What transition time during your day would benefit from a new routine?

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  • http://www.household-management-101.com/kitchen-cleaning-tips.html Taylor at Household Management

    This is a topic I really love — routines. And I love to read about other people’s routines, because it gives me ideas for myself about what works, doesn’t work, or could work even better.

    My most important routines include my morning and after dinner routines. I have to get certain things going in the morning to get off on a good foot for the day, but I also need to have gotten ready for the day the night before or I am playing catch up all day.

    I like waking up to a clean kitchen ready for a quick breakfast with the kids, not one where I have to clean up the dishes, pots and pans from the night before.

    Taylor at Household Management 101’s last blog post…Apr 16, Getting Kids Involved With The Chores – Melissa’s Story

  • http://www.household-management-101.com/kitchen-cleaning-tips.html Taylor at Household Management 101

    This is a topic I really love — routines. And I love to read about other people’s routines, because it gives me ideas for myself about what works, doesn’t work, or could work even better.

    My most important routines include my morning and after dinner routines. I have to get certain things going in the morning to get off on a good foot for the day, but I also need to have gotten ready for the day the night before or I am playing catch up all day.

    I like waking up to a clean kitchen ready for a quick breakfast with the kids, not one where I have to clean up the dishes, pots and pans from the night before.

    Taylor at Household Management 101’s last blog post…Apr 16, Getting Kids Involved With The Chores – Melissa’s Story

  • Margi

    In the words of Joan Rivers:

    “I hate housework! You make the beds, you do the dishes and six months later you have to start all over again.”

  • Margi

    In the words of Joan Rivers:

    “I hate housework! You make the beds, you do the dishes and six months later you have to start all over again.”

  • thursday

    My routine leaves a lot to be desired. Currently, I wake up when the baby does (whenever that might be – usually between 7 and 9 am – i know, crazy late). I feed him, then have coffee and breakfast while he plays on the floor. I usually wait 2 hours until he’s sleepy to shower. But, he doesn’t always want to nap. Which then throws my entire day. Now what? I then spend 1-3 hours trying to get him to take a nap just so I can eat lunch and shower. If I try to feed him in the high chair, he’ll proceed to shriek at the top of his lungs, making thinking about/making/eating lunch very difficult/impossible. Then, once the shower and lunch are achieved, I try to remember what on earth else I need to do today. Laundry? Groceries? Recycling? Garbage? Oh, and vacuuming- which I can only do if he’s awake and stable. Then it’s probably 5 or 6, and I need to figure out dinner, since I still haven’t figured out menu planning (I don’t have any stand-by recipes, still having trouble finding ingredients at the stores, and who knows when my husband will make something for a snack or lunch that uses key ingredients?).

    So, what do you do when a small child throws off the routine? I know you’re expecting… do your little ones normally manage to follow a nap routine?

  • thursday

    My routine leaves a lot to be desired. Currently, I wake up when the baby does (whenever that might be – usually between 7 and 9 am – i know, crazy late). I feed him, then have coffee and breakfast while he plays on the floor. I usually wait 2 hours until he’s sleepy to shower. But, he doesn’t always want to nap. Which then throws my entire day. Now what? I then spend 1-3 hours trying to get him to take a nap just so I can eat lunch and shower. If I try to feed him in the high chair, he’ll proceed to shriek at the top of his lungs, making thinking about/making/eating lunch very difficult/impossible. Then, once the shower and lunch are achieved, I try to remember what on earth else I need to do today. Laundry? Groceries? Recycling? Garbage? Oh, and vacuuming- which I can only do if he’s awake and stable. Then it’s probably 5 or 6, and I need to figure out dinner, since I still haven’t figured out menu planning (I don’t have any stand-by recipes, still having trouble finding ingredients at the stores, and who knows when my husband will make something for a snack or lunch that uses key ingredients?).

    So, what do you do when a small child throws off the routine? I know you’re expecting… do your little ones normally manage to follow a nap routine?

  • Margi

    With this last child of mine, I had to start referring to Schedule as “The S Word.” He never – repeat, never – has followed one. It’s very loosely molded around meals.

    I have to get up pretty early in the morning (or stay up past his bedtime) to do many things. It’s only just recently (he’s three) that he has started adapting to anything resembling a routine. Which is good, because I’m hoping he can start preschool in September. (Now school – THAT’s a routine!)

  • Margi

    With this last child of mine, I had to start referring to Schedule as “The S Word.” He never – repeat, never – has followed one. It’s very loosely molded around meals.

    I have to get up pretty early in the morning (or stay up past his bedtime) to do many things. It’s only just recently (he’s three) that he has started adapting to anything resembling a routine. Which is good, because I’m hoping he can start preschool in September. (Now school – THAT’s a routine!)

  • http://www.overcomingbusy.com Marci

    We have morning, after school and bedtime routines. They keep our lives on track. The routines set up the next part of the day and help it go smoothly. I think it is important to see the difference between a schedule and a routine. We would all rebel against a schedule. Too confining.

    Marci’s last blog post…The great toy experiment

  • http://www.overcomingbusy.com Marci

    We have morning, after school and bedtime routines. They keep our lives on track. The routines set up the next part of the day and help it go smoothly. I think it is important to see the difference between a schedule and a routine. We would all rebel against a schedule. Too confining.

    Marci’s last blog post…The great toy experiment

  • http://www.mommysideabook.com/ Amanda @ Mommy’s Idea Book

    Without a routine, my day is shot. I don’t know whether I’m coming or going. I’m not always perfectly scheduled by the hour, since I have a 1 year old, but I do try to do things in the same order each day.

    Amanda @ Mommy’s Idea Book’s last blog post…The Hurrier I Go, the Behinder I Get

  • http://www.mommysideabook.com/ Amanda @ Mommy’s Idea Book

    Without a routine, my day is shot. I don’t know whether I’m coming or going. I’m not always perfectly scheduled by the hour, since I have a 1 year old, but I do try to do things in the same order each day.

    Amanda @ Mommy’s Idea Book’s last blog post…The Hurrier I Go, the Behinder I Get

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